I read an interview about a woman who said something like (or the idea was anyway):
”Women are more willing to have sex, when housework has been done and husband/man has also helped with the housework”
I’m totally against of this thought! But first I have to say; I’m not saying that men should not do housework. I’m saying that making housework is not the way to sex or making housework should be some how rewarded with sex or by making housework you get more and better sex.
No no no! First of all, I think no woman is man is sexy when he is doing housework. “You are so sexy when you hovering! I want you now!” And sex should not be reward of something and there should not be any kind of thought “I will give him / her some sex because of some nice dusting he / she made…”
Sex should be so that both want to have sex. It should not be used as a weapon or any kind of tool to achieve something.
So being a man you should notice when women tries to do this. And you must fight back! And you must say no! Sex that is a reward totally not worth of it!
So sex when there is desire for both parties! It could be so that desire comes more easily when other is not just lying on the sofa and drinking beer while other is doing all cleaning, dishes etc. But still I think that real men are not doing housework so that they would have sex. Housework can be done (and I’m also doing it), but not because you are thinking about sex (Some could argue that men are all the time thinking about sex.). When you are a man woman should want you and this leads to intimacy.
So say no to reward sex!